Category Archives: My Personal History

Retirement and Goals for my new life

Posted on May 2, 2021 by Kay Pelham

May 14 is my last day as a homeschool teacher. I have been directing my son’s education from birth. We began his official school education when I registered him with an “umbrella school” in Tennessee as K4 in 2007. I … Continue reading →

Posted in My Personal History, Teaching, Uncategorized | Tagged , | Comments Off on Retirement and Goals for my new life

Goodreads Review: The Death of Ivan Ilych

Posted on April 25, 2021 by Kay Pelham

The Death of Ivan Ilych by Leo Tolstoy My rating: 5 of 5 stars So much to say about this little book about dying. It’s also about living. Tolstoy takes us through the different stages of Ivan Ilych’s life, the … Continue reading →

Posted in Book Reviews, Character, My Personal History | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Goodreads Review: The Death of Ivan Ilych

He Keeps Me Singing

Posted on March 2, 2021 by Kay Pelham

I was a sad girl when I met Jack Pelham in November of 1998. My younger brother (and best friend) had died from cancer in July, and my grief was unbearable at times. Three months after my brother’s death, I … Continue reading →

Posted in Music, My Personal History | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on He Keeps Me Singing

Parents Aren’t Supposed to Bury Their Children

Posted on February 25, 2021 by Kay Pelham

We buried our daughter on this day 15 years ago, the day after she had breathed her last in my mother’s arms. The funeral home hosted a visitation for family and friends, and then we all drove to the cemetery … Continue reading →

Posted in My Personal History | Tagged , | Comments Off on Parents Aren’t Supposed to Bury Their Children

The Case of the Awesome Sister

Posted on February 21, 2021 by Kay Pelham

Some time after I had started piano lessons at age 7, my mother asked my sister Karen, five years my senior, if she wanted to take lessons. Karen responded, “Why would a lawyer need to know how to play piano?” … Continue reading →

Posted in Music, My Personal History, Uncategorized | Tagged , , | Comments Off on The Case of the Awesome Sister

On the Fifteenth Anniversary of Our Daughter’s Birth

Posted on February 3, 2021 by Kay Pelham

Our daughter, Virginia Grace Pelham, was born February 3, 2006 and passed from this life three weeks later, almost to the very hour of her birth, on February 24, 2006. I’ve often written on social media and on this blog … Continue reading →

Posted in My Personal History | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on On the Fifteenth Anniversary of Our Daughter’s Birth

Naive

Posted on January 24, 2021 by Kay Pelham

When I was not yet 18 years old, I was headed to college 12 hours away from home. I was excited about this. Not that I had not enjoyed my super secure home life with Mom, Dad, 3 older siblings, … Continue reading →

Posted in Character, My Personal History | Tagged , | Comments Off on Naive

The Block around which I’ve Beeeen

Posted on January 24, 2021 by Kay Pelham

From time to time I comment that I have “been around the block enough to know”, so I am parking here a post that I will update when necessary, and link to whenever I catch myself making that comment, to … Continue reading →

Posted in My Personal History | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on The Block around which I’ve Beeeen

I’m Not Sorry About My Parents

Posted on April 5, 2020 by Kay Pelham

My mother was a teenage bride. My mother was a teenage mother. Yes, in that order. Life came full circle in some ways for my parents. In 1987 they returned after more than 35 years in Illinois to the Ritter … Continue reading →

Posted in Character, My Personal History, Parenting, Uncategorized | Tagged , | Comments Off on I’m Not Sorry About My Parents